A small revelation of something i already knew but failed to realize

I have found that being engaged can be hard. To the most casual observer it may appear that the only difference between my dating relationship with Hannah and my engaged relationship with Hannah is that she has a nice ring and also i now have no money. But this is far from the truth. I must now learn how to put her needs in a greater place of importance, and in many cases above my own. This can cause some discomfort as well as frustration. I want to serve her but it is difficult when it means putting my wants on the back burner for the time being. I am thankful for this opportunity but i must say it is a challenge, and only one of the many. Love is clearly a choice and by no means easy. But with all of this being said, I welcome the challenges to come.